The decision…!!!

No one ever promised life is going to be easy. No one ever said you will get everything effortlessly in life. No one ever said in life, joy will be given gift wrapped to you.
But this is always said that for those who are persistent, success will follow them. It is also said that if you want something desperately enough, you should always find that one reason to stick to it even if life gives you a thousand reason to back out from it.
Nature teaches you: birds do not build their nests in one day. Sea cannot erode rocks in the first attempt. Clouds are not formed in a day. Everything requires time and patience and most importantly, persistence. 
By being persistent, there is nothing you cannot achieve. You just have to believe that you can. Life is not easy. But what is the fun if it was easy? Where is the pride if you are given anything without ample effort? When you put in substantial effort into anything, you will value the result, no matter how small it is.
Situations which does not break you, make you. Situations happen in your life because of your own choices. At every path, you are given choices. Nothing is predetermined. Everything is relative to the choices you make. You can always make your life the way you want depending on your choices. Just because someone says you cannot do something does not mean you cant. But if you believe you cant, then you never will. 
Be like the deaf frog fallen in the deep well. If you do not know the story, let me tell you in brief. Two frogs fell into a well. The well was very deep. They started to try to jump out. The other frogs started saying you will never succeed. One of the frog heard that, felt disheartened, stopped trying, fell into the well and died. The other frog kept on trying. Finally it succeeded. When the other frogs asked how did you succeed when we kept telling you that you will not succeed, the frog said i cannot hear properly. I thought you were shouting encouragements.
Society will always try to pull you down. But it is up to you if you want to be the dead frog or the deaf frog. The difference is just a letter. But it makes the difference of life and death.
I am.. No, i was at a cross roads till some time back. Now i have taken a decision. I am very well aware of the societal norms and the difficulties involved. But its time i become deaf. 
When it is your life, the ultimate decision should always be yours. Everyone will be there to advice you but at the end, you are the one who is gonna live it. Always think “ten years down my life, will i regret this?” the answer is your decision. As long as you are true to yourself and not cheating anyone, your decision will always be right. You just need to believe it is and follow it till the very end. Every battle will come to an end. The result will always depend on whether you choose “d” or “f” in the end. Ultimately, it all comes down to just one letter. That is life. And no one promised it will ever be fair.
Nothing is ever impossible. Every lock has a key. Every problem in this world has a solution. It is just that some keys you get easily while some keys you have to really search. But rest assured. The longer you search for the key, the sweeter will be the surprise behind the door. 
It is always like this, the best time to try harder is when you feel you should quit because that is when you are nearest to your goal. It is always the darkest before light. 

And once you achieve your goal, you will forget your fatigue. So put in that extra bit, give that extra shove today. Dont quit just yet. There is only a tiny bit more to go. Just a little bit more…


About devinair

A thinker, dreamer, ponderer, I love to think of things which normally people wouldn't. These thoughts are put into words for the world to read through my blogs. Do feel free to comment on them If you like to read, do feel free to go through my book reviews to help you select the next best book to read. Follow the link
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2 Responses to The decision…!!!

  1. Juhi Magodia says:

    Wow dis truly got me thinking! good one…Keep writing sweethrt! \m/


  2. devi nair says:

    Hehe thank u sweetie. Hope it helps u. Take care


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