What is life anyway!!!

What is life anyway??? One moment you have it all figured out and the very next moment, you have the carpet pulled from right under your feet… So what is life, after all?? You think there are all these people who are very important to you and you would do anything to not hurt them but when it comes to your own happiness, you are left nowhere… So where do life take you???
These answers we may never get. Life is not a bed of roses but neither is it a path of thorns. It is a rose garden. You will get to see so many roses and take in all those wonderful smell, but if you want to take those roses for yourself, you will have to face thorns. Only after you have dealt with the thorns do you get those roses. So life is basically a rose garden.
Whenever you are going through difficult times, when you have to make tough decisions, always remember this – Nothing lasts forever. Difficult times pass. Tough decisions, once taken, pass away. Even the joy passes. Nothing remains. What ultimately remains is your satisfaction if you have taken the right choice or your guilt if you were not strong enough to follow your dreams.
Following your dreams is never going to be easy. If they were easy, they would never have been your dreams. You will face so much difficulties on the road that many times you will feel its better to back out and let go than to go through all this. But at such times, just think once. For a temporary relief, are you ready to let go of your dream? Just because you could not handle stress for a short duration, would you be able to live without your dream? Would you be able to live with yourself after that? 
You get only one life, and there is only one moment of decision which decides if you get your dream or not. Always be careful in those moments. Think twice before quitting, because by quitting you will get temporary stress free life, but by being persistent, you will get the life of your dreams. 
Human being is a social animal. Every decision taken by man is scrutinized by the society. Many a times you come across something which you want but you think about what will the society think. The people around you might discourage you in the same fear. But think once. Who is going to live your life? You are. So who should be happy about the way you lead your life? You should. Tomorrow when you are upset that you did not get what you wanted, the society is not going to come to console you. Their job is to discourage you. Your job is to encourage yourself.
Many times you will feel alone in the struggle. But please do not forget that it is for your life that you are fighting, it is for your happiness that you are fighting. And if you do not fight for yourself, no one will. 
Everyone one will be there for you when you are happy. But it is when you are upset that you realize where you are. 
Accept that if you want something, you will have to fight and fight alone to get it. The harder your struggle, my dear, the sweeter will be your victory. Life is a struggle after all. It is not where you reach at the end that matters (because everyone goes 6 feet under in the end) but it is how you reached there that matters. Make your journey count. Only by fighting for yourself will you ever be happy. So my wish for you is be happy 🙂

About devinair

A thinker, dreamer, ponderer, I love to think of things which normally people wouldn't. These thoughts are put into words for the world to read through my blogs. Do feel free to comment on them If you like to read, do feel free to go through my book reviews to help you select the next best book to read. Follow the link http://theverdictsout.wordpress.com
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